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Only Want The Best
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Posted by Only Want The Best

on Mar 26, 2008

In desperate need of help! For the past two years I have been having problems out of my now 14yr old son.  My older son was shot five times because, my 14yr old had a charlie horse and kicked dirt on a young man's pants while they were at a park. Since then he has been acting out. I have have went above and beyond trying to get help and conseling for him. He was on the honor role and started receiving failing grades because he refused to gto school. I have went as far as filing an ungovernable petition to have him court ordered to go to school, stay from certain places and so-called friends. As a mother of four young men I try to be firm, but fair. My requirements of my children are simple, go to school, keep your room clean, don't use drugs and Be a Something and Somebody instead of a Nothing and Nobody! On March 04, 2008 my 14 year old son was home after refusing to go to school. I then questioned him about being home once again. He then started yelling at me, saying that "he hate me", and telling me that "he will Knock me out"! I  threw a paint brush at him and  he balled up his fist and said that, "he will knock me out".After being threatned by my on child I called 911 and  I waited on the police.Once the police arrived one of the officers said that , "as a mother you have every right to discipline your children especially if they are rude and disrespectful". The officers then left and a female officer returned to tell me that she was training the other officer and he was wrong and that "I did not have a right to discipline". I was on the phone with my mother and I was telling her what the officer said. I explained to her that I work everyday and that My Children Must Abide By The Rules. She then told me to hang up the phone, but she never read me my rights or told me that she was placing me under arrest. I told her that "I did not do anything wrong". She then grabbed my arm and yelled for another officer, he came in and stomped on my foot and slapped me on my neck pulling me down the stairs. After falling down the stairs I was told if I did not put my hands behind my back they was going to taser me. They took me to the police station, although they never read me my rights. I told them that I needed medical care because I had no feeling in my toes and they were bleeding. I was taken to the hospital, once examined I had to get stitches in one of my toes and the other one was broken. I was then taken to PBSO Jail and booked on domestic battery on my son who was very disrespectful to me. Now I am on a leave from my job, because once release I was seen by two other doctors who refused to let me work due to foot, shoulder and lower back injuries I sustained from the Officers using excessive force.  All I want to do is be the best mother to my children. It's so much crime and gang activity where we live and I don't  want my kids to become apart of that. I am in need of some financial help or resources. If you can Help me please send the prayers,financial assistance or resource information to  Juanetta Lewis 182 East 28th Street Riviera Beach, Florida 33404 or email me at Lewis2davis@aol.com .Thank you in advance, pray for me and God Bless You!
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4. Only Want The Best posted on Jun 2, 2008
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Thank you so much for your kind words it really lifted my spirits.  i appreciate you for giving me inspiration.

 

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3. JA.H.S. posted on May 10, 2008
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I know that you are not working but you can look into Prepaid legal law agency and or find a pro bono lawyer and sue them for your paing and suffering, your childrens pain and suffering, wrongful arrest, lost of wages and all financial issues you have. Good luck and God bless.

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2. JA.H.S. posted on May 10, 2008

I am truly touched and bothered by your story. I've been very displeased with the things that the law enforcement personnel have been doing.  But as it stands. In the Bible it is all been for told on how we will be living in such a state.

Through all of this we all need to stand and fight for a glimse of respect.  Eventually we will get a greater percentile of that respect for our lives.

After being in the military and wronged by the blue coat individuals in my unit to the constant lies and threats that my family has sustain through out our lives, I am tired.

However, there is a time and a place for everything.

 recently I and my family had a problem with a young lady and my nephew the police arrested my brother after telling him that they would kick his behind. They told us that we could not make a report for the threatening things that he was saying towards the family which was disturbing. Heirsay they said it was. And when he came around trying to complete the job it was reported and they never showed up.   I prayed and prayed. I told the devil to get behind me and my family and continued on with what was needed of me.  We have all bee blessed and it did not turn to ugly and we all walked away. 

My point is we must never stop fighting to live our lives to the best of our abilities and stand up for all that the good Lord has given you the strength to stand up for.

keep your chin up to the heavens and a smile upon your face and never let satan see you down.  He has no strength on you if you don't let him see you are down. Love yourself and your sons. Embrace your life and all that is within it and carry on.  God bless.

I pray for you as I know you will do for me to help us get over these financial, physical, and mental holds that we are facing. And I'll see you one day on heavens grounds as we rejoice for His deliverence during our time here on earth and the joining of his grace in his home.



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Those who pray, dream
Those who dream, have hope
Those who have hope, live their lives abundantly
When adding them all together we get faith.
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1. BRYNNAZMOMMY posted on Apr 11, 2008

HEY LADY! THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS!I LOGGED ON HERE AND WHAT YOU WROTE WAS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR AT THAT MOMENT. I FORGET ALOT THAT GOD IS HERE WITH ME.....

I WAS READING YOUR POST ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED WITH YOUR SON, AND HOW THOSE "PEACE OFFICERS" ABUSED YOU, AND I CRIED FOR YOU WOMAN. I REMEMBER MY OLDEST BROTHER ALWAYS PUTTING MY MOTHER DOWN; DAMN, SOME OF THE THINGS THAT CAME OUT OF HIS MOUTH........IM TELLIN YA, I WOULD WATCH HIM BREAK HER HEART OVER AND OVER AGAIN, AND SHE WOULD JUST PICK UP ALL THE LITTLE PIECES AND LOVE HIM WITH EVERY ONE. IT MADE ME SICK.

IT WASN'T UNTILL I HAD MY DAUGHTER THAT I REALIZED WHAT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE WAS......I HOPE YOUR SON LEARNS TO APPRECIATE YOU, I PRAY THAT HE MAKES YOU A PROUD MAMA, AND THAT GOD WILL SURROUND YOU WITH HIS BLESSINGS. AND GIRL, I HOPE YOU ARE PRESSING CHARGES FOR THE TREATMENT YOU RECEIVED FROM THOSE OFFICERS.   STAY STRONG!

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